Tourette's tourette

Our purposefully sounding cold and direct is as unexpected as sounds in a vacuum cleaner!

. . . we all understand . . . Tourette’s tourette . . . .

No matter how we want to impose our feelings on others while pretending to ignore we do that to others purposefully . . the fact is:

We all do it . . .to a greater degree or less.

Those expressions feel to me, as the receiver, like a form of a transference of deeper coincident, but not consciously acknowledged conflicting thoughts & feelings to the speaker’s own self . . . and then hinting to others those thoughts and feelings are there while being unexpressed purposefully.

The gesture always maintains a form of attempted emotional control in a perceived out of control situation when we step back and observe the whole communication - especially to a dispassionate observer who does not really care or is not implicated and therefore consciously sees beyond the word gestures to the personal gesturer themselves and the conflict of not feeling safe in the moment.

This type of behavior reflects a true need for integrity to be expressed; even if only by being directly indirect.

Not unclear at all . . .really . . . we notify others of our state of Being when we attempt to do this transfer our personal clouds of feelings in order to be relieved of the pressure of the darkness we maintain in our aloneness . . .

We do it when we are tired too . . .